About
You, free to walk into the life you were born for
VISION
You, free of of the burden of what you and others did in the past.
MISSION

Supporting you in learning how to cleanse your nervous system, freeing you of what anchors you to your lived as well as your ancestral past. You’ll receive support and perspective in growing your capacity for living in the present, free of those false beliefs and everything they cost you, forever.

HOW IT WORKS
At its simplest, we walk together in a confidential coaching session(s) into what your body knows that your mind is blind to. Following the thread provided by your body and nervous system, we’ll find what’s driving you that’s troubling.
You get to add warmth and completely transform that. We’ll martial the support of the lineages in your cells, regardless of how your ancestors behaved. If you are holding your self or another in judgment, we’ll support your real, once-and-for-all forgiveness. You’ll no longer be tied to what you or someone else did that hurt you. Then we work together to build the life you were born for.

Disclaimer

My work is coaching, not therapy, even though you may experience deep healing from what we do together.

I offer you my ear for truth in whatever form it appears.

Together we find that in you.

Barbara  6:24

00:00 – Driven by the stories
01:35 – Performance
02:47 – Parenting on auto-pilot
04:35 – Getting it right as a boss
06:04 – My offer

About Me
I have more than four score years of living.
STUDIED, PRACTICED, TAUGHT
I’ve studied, practiced, and taught in the fields of coaching, mediation, forgiveness, family constellation, shamanism, advanced communication skills, sound healing, education and law – so many streams for you to draw on.
BECAME A WRITER

I write articles, posts and blogs and have written law review articles as well as two books on mediation. In all of this I learned that my real love is in coaching and training. The video clip shows some of the challenges/opportunities in my life so far.

MY LIFE
I’ve taught in high school, in college and in law schools in addition to offering a variety of workshops. I’ve been a civil rights lawyer in the 1970’s, fighting for employment equity, a pioneer mediator and forgiveness facilitator in the 1980’s and a buffalo rancher,author and student of shamanism in the 1990’s. Later, I added coaching, advanced communication skills training, family constellation work and shamanic journeying to my skill set.
Let’s be Friends
If you’ve come to this website, there is likely a story embedded in your body that is choking the meaning out of your life right now. Here you’ll find a safe, simple way to walk together to edit your past, freeing you from that blockage in your nervous system forever. Meanwhile revel in the unique contributions in the Secret Garden.
Your Part

To make the most of what’s on offer, you need only give your whole-hearted commitment to freeing yourself of the debilitating ties to your past stuck in your body and nervous system. I’ll provide all of my skills, experience and knowledge to you as needed.

Do it now
It’s time to enjoy you, free.